Lately I have been focusing on the wrong things. Sure there has been a lot of negativity with me but I have allowed them to consume my thoughts. My focus has been on these negatives and it has really hurt me and others in the long run. So I am not going to mention or dwell on the negatives but will push them to the back, not forget them, but I will not allow them to take over my thoughts.
So what do I need to do to have a thankful heart? I am going to start with ten things that I am grateful for.
1. God is, and always will be, here for me.
2. I have friends that truly care about my well being.
3. The future has many bright spots in it that are there for the taking.
4. I have three children and two grand children.
5. (This is hard to stay positive about but) I have my health, meaning I am still functioning.
6. Learning from my past and but not dwelling on the failures will make me better in the future.
7. Over all I try to remain positive towards all areas of my life.
8. I have friends that I care about and want the best for them.
9. I am able to help others.
10. God has given me the ability to think and reason.
So to have a thankful heart I need to concentrate on the things I am thankful and grateful for. There are many good and valuable blessings and concentrating on them will make for a positive outcome. I believe that when you need something from others (not materialistic) don't ask for it, give it, it will return back to you.
I know there are those that are saying.. God says that we are to ask of Him.... and I agree with that also. What I am talking about though has to do with relationships with people and expectations. Keeping my mind concentrating on what is positive so that when the time comes for me to ask of God I can do it with the right motivation.
I will close with this. Gratitude is so powerful. Gratitude puts you in a positive frame of reference within which many more positive things can happen. Begin, end, and live each day with a sincerely thankful heart. As each day passes, you will have more and more to to be thankful for. The credit for this last statement goes to Ralph Marston, author of The Daily Motivator.
So what do I need to do to have a thankful heart? I am going to start with ten things that I am grateful for.
1. God is, and always will be, here for me.
2. I have friends that truly care about my well being.
3. The future has many bright spots in it that are there for the taking.
4. I have three children and two grand children.
5. (This is hard to stay positive about but) I have my health, meaning I am still functioning.
6. Learning from my past and but not dwelling on the failures will make me better in the future.
7. Over all I try to remain positive towards all areas of my life.
8. I have friends that I care about and want the best for them.
9. I am able to help others.
10. God has given me the ability to think and reason.
So to have a thankful heart I need to concentrate on the things I am thankful and grateful for. There are many good and valuable blessings and concentrating on them will make for a positive outcome. I believe that when you need something from others (not materialistic) don't ask for it, give it, it will return back to you.
I know there are those that are saying.. God says that we are to ask of Him.... and I agree with that also. What I am talking about though has to do with relationships with people and expectations. Keeping my mind concentrating on what is positive so that when the time comes for me to ask of God I can do it with the right motivation.
I will close with this. Gratitude is so powerful. Gratitude puts you in a positive frame of reference within which many more positive things can happen. Begin, end, and live each day with a sincerely thankful heart. As each day passes, you will have more and more to to be thankful for. The credit for this last statement goes to Ralph Marston, author of The Daily Motivator.